As promised, here are more thoughts from Church of the Redeemer couples. John and Dawn Lundgren From Dawn: John and I were married in 1977. A key in our marriage is really, really listening to one another, carving out space for long, meandering conversations (about books and ideas, hopes and dreams) and forgiving one another. Ed and Annemarie Pickens From Annemarie: We have been married almost 15 years. One of the scripture verses Ed and I pray to each other…